What makes SubRosaDictum special
A place for protagonists of one’s own imagination
At SubRosaDictum, the focus is not on the organizers. It’s not about the promoter. It’s not about egos or so-called big names. It’s about creating a space—a stage, a setting—where others can shine. Our guests.
SubRosaDictum is an invitation to stage yourself. The real protagonists are those who come, experience, and show themselves. We see ourselves as producers behind the scenes: we set the lighting, open up the space, and create the atmosphere—so that others can flourish in it.
Behind it all is a circle of friends, a crew, a collective of creative, intelligent, sensual people—with ideas, skills, and a lot of dedication. Together, we create this special place: for play, for imagination, for transformation, and for what can only happen on this very night.
Our heartfelt thanks and sincere appreciation go to all those who make this possible: our team. Without you, SubRosaDictum would not be a space—it would be just a thought.
SubRosaDictum – a world of its own
Between staging, fantasy, and mental cinema—beyond the mainstream
SubRosaDictum sees itself as an independent format within the multifaceted world of sensual, erotic, and body-conscious events. We do not wish to set ourselves apart, but rather to establish our place. We appreciate other concepts, but we are clearly aware of our own stance.
Swingers and lifestyle parties
are primarily aimed at people who want to live out their sexuality openly, actively, and physically. The focus is on encounters, partner swapping, and eroticism—sometimes playful, sometimes direct, often with clear sexual intentions.
Fetish and BDSM events
like SubRosaDictum, have a different focus. It’s not primarily about sex – but about staging, role-playing, devotion, control, fantasy, style, and depth. It’s about exploring dynamics, the pleasure of transformation, the power of mental imagery. It’s about immersing yourself in roles – whether as mistress or master, sub or O, femme fatale or cavalry captain. Of course, physical practices, pleasure, pain, or ecstasy can also be part of this journey – but they are embedded in a larger, multi-layered game.
Kinky
is a collective term—an umbrella word for everything that lies outside the mainstream. It is often experimental, more playful, more open—sometimes deep, sometimes light. Being kinky means taking liberties, questioning conventions, and exploring your own boundaries. It is more a zeitgeist than a way of life—and offers many people their first access to the scene.
Sex-positive
, on the other hand, stands for an attitude: an open, self-determined, and non-judgmental approach to sexuality in all its facets. Sex-positive events celebrate diversity, consent, physicality, queerness, and freedom—and create spaces where anything based on mutual consent is allowed.
What makes SubRosaDictum special
More than a party – a curated experience for all the senses
SubRosaDictum is not a place for superficiality—but for depth, style, and genuine desire.
What makes us special is our eye for detail. Our love of beautiful things, sensual aesthetics, and thoughtful staging.
We create spaces where atmosphere isn’t just created—it’s designed. With light, music, design, and a flair for the unexpected.
We are passionate about extraordinary locations: cathedrals of the night, industrial romanticism, hidden places with character and history.
We are part of the scene. Not from the outside, but from the inside.
Our passion for BDSM, fetish, and role-playing is not staged—it is part of our lives.
Our love of style, transformation, and class—it’s an expression of our attitude.
SubRosaDictum stands for curated guests, community spirit, and respectful coexistence.
For deep play at a high level. For sexual self-determination—free from shame, free from judgment.
And for the courage to combine beauty with depth.
Our self-image
An invitation to the imagination, a space for genuine transformation
SubRosaDictum stands for the art of creating spaces—not only in a physical sense, but also in an emotional and imaginary sense. Spaces where people can encounter themselves, reinvent themselves, and transcend boundaries. We don’t see our work as event production, but rather as a curated invitation to the imagination.
Our stance is clear:
Freedom requires respect. Desire requires trust. Style requires depth. We believe in a world where everyone can be who they truly are—beyond norms, clichés, and compromises.
We bear responsibility—towards our guests, our community, and what becomes possible during these nights.
That’s why we pay attention to every detail: aesthetics, atmosphere, safety.
Our spaces are well thought out, not arbitrary. Our communication is clear, not loud. Our attitude is open, but not arbitrary.
SubRosaDictum is not a place for the masses—it is for those who seek what cannot be bought: meaning. Depth. Transformation.
